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Why do men cheat on women? Or why do women cheat on men?

KevBrock	Date: January 8, 2004 @ 6:48 PM It happens all the time. Why do people do it? Is it the reason that men cheat on women because men don't get enough sex from them? Or the men are not attracted to their partner anymore? Or they are just sick of having sex with the same person every night and want some different flavors? When women cheat on men, is it because there is not enough communication? Not enough spending time with her? She's not interested in you anymore? She's just testing and using you for attention? There are many reasons on this. Cheating on your partner is something I would NEVER too. It's a bit pathetic and childish to cheat on someone you are dating. I can understand why someone would feel hurt and upset of their partner cheating on them. It's very hurting and painful. For example, I've dated several women in the past who already had boyfriends or engaged to be married when I didn't even know about it. Just women teasing and using me, nothing new. These are the kind of women I stay away from. I don't like the type of women that will sleep with a bunch of different guys one at a time as I never was a one night stand type of person. I'm the type of guy that wanst to be in a serious relationship with a woman, not just a sexual lust kind of thing. Fun is great, but sex with women I barely know is not my thing. The reason I ask this question about cheating because a funny thing just happened at my 2nd part time job at a resturaunt where I work at doing dishes (I work two different jobs). My aunt owns that resturaunt. It's just a small caffe. My aunt fired one of the waitresses because the waitress had sex with my aunt's boyfriend behind my aunt's back. So my aunt fired the waitress and dumped her boyfriend after that incident, kudos to her, my aunt is smart and she doesn't take shit from anyone. That's what the waitress deserved when she wants to mess with the owner's private life. So that's what inspired me to make this topic. I knew something was up with that waitress the whole time, because the waitress was very flirty with me also, she's another one of those type of women who sleeps with a bunch of different guys. Cheating is stupid, stupid, stupid, and stupid. Anyways, I'm just bored to death tonight, so I'm just trying to come up with a new topic to talk about in the forum.
sepidman	Date: January 8, 2004 @ 6:54 PM There are many books on the subject and I am sure that people who have done it have their own reasons, whatever they might be. UVery often it alll comes down to the basics. Men and women have diffeternt needs and often these needs are no longer being met by the partner so the neglected partner finds that need somewhere else. Often it is quite by accident.
sepidman	Date: January 8, 2004 @ 6:56 PM And ummmmmmmmm, send that waitress on up....I have an order for her!!
milladrive	Date: January 8, 2004 @ 7:53 PM honest with their partner. Having sex with someone else is only cheating when one person goes behind the other's back to do it, i.e., infidelity, deceit, and dishonesty. If it's agreed upon, then it's not cheating. Equating sex and dating someone else with cheating is incorrect if both parties are okay with it. Now, that being said, I think the REAL question is, why are some people dishonest with people they allegedly care about?" id="78367">I think it depends on what we consider "cheating." Bottom line about cheating is that people (either gender) are not being honest with their partner. Having sex with someone else is only cheating when one person goes behind the other's back to do it, i.e., infidelity, deceit, and dishonesty. If it's agreed upon, then it's not cheating. Equating sex and dating someone else with cheating is incorrect if both parties are okay with it. Now, that being said, I think the REAL question is, why are some people dishonest with people they allegedly care about?
Distilled1	Date: January 8, 2004 @ 8:03 PM they don't have a good enough relationship to begin with, and know that they can't be honest! " id="78370">"...Now, that being said, I think the REAL question is, why are some people dishonest with people they allegedly care about?" I would agree 100% Honesty is the best policy and maybe you'll get that strange... Why are people dishonest? because *they don't have a good enough relationship to begin with, and know that they can't be honest!*
redrasta	Date: January 8, 2004 @ 8:34 PM Why does Kev continually go on about women, staying away from them, and how they have all used him??? Kev....are you gay? (Its an honest question.)
Distilled1	Date: January 8, 2004 @ 8:38 PM
MickeyBreezy	Date: January 8, 2004 @ 8:46 PM cuz we're all just a bunch of fuckin assholes...nuff said.
smelv1n	Date: January 8, 2004 @ 10:23 PM meh, i was thinking about it last night, decided not to though.. when i girl you like says to you in plain english "i want to have sex with you on wednesday" it's hard to say no, even if you have a current girlfriend. now that i think of it, i could have gotten away with it, because the girlfriend tried to call last night but her addressbook was deleted from her phone and my new number is hard to remember.... damn.
Thaspian	Date: January 8, 2004 @ 10:29 PM Kelso: Yeah, but when a guy cheats, it's different. Jackie: How so? Kelso: Well, when a guy cheats, he's just looking for some hot action. When a girl cheats, she must really hate the guy since women don't even like sex. Jackie: Yes we do, kelso. Kelso: Then why aren't we doing it right now? Jackie: Because I don't want to. Kelso: See? I DO!! If my girlfriend told me she wanted to get it from someone else, . Now, that being said, I think the REAL question is, why are some people dishonest with people they allegedly care about? Why is the sky blue, milla? Just happens, I guess.
Pagan	Date: January 9, 2004 @ 3:31 PM because woman are looking for the ONE man that will satisfy her EVERY want and need. And men are looking for EVERY woman to satisfy their ONE want and need. kev, you need to get laid dude, it sounds like you are backed up and not thinking clearly. you have sperm on the brain me thinks. men talk like that when: 1. they are talking to a group of girls and trying to impress them about how sensitive they are (which never works btw)you just end up becoming the safe gay freind while they bang the biggest asshole friend you have. 2. They are horny and desparate and usually woman can see right through it. 3. they are gay,........ REALLY gay but have never met a guy they were attracted to where the attraction was stronger than the revulsion of butt sex. youll find the right guy kev and it will all become crystal clear very quickly. it will just feel right.....well maybe not the first few times.lol!
TameasDust	Date: January 9, 2004 @ 4:10 PM in a former life they were birds and only got it once a year ... now as humans they want it as much as they can get
TameasDust	Date: January 9, 2004 @ 4:12 PM also a woman who is around 40 is as horny as a 19 year old male
KevBrock	Date: January 10, 2004 @ 4:53 PM LOL, no I'm not gay, I love women very dearly. I'm just being careful of trying to find the right woman. I could get laid with the waitress if I wanted to though. All I have to do is call her up and off we go.
Gatherer	Date: January 10, 2004 @ 5:12 PM Kev, don't do it!!! you'll walk around the rest of your life as a bubble gum popping, snorting-through-your-nose when-you-laugh, bad hair dye redhead, and call everyone you meet, "Hon". Not the best way to attract the right woman!
KevBrock	Date: January 10, 2004 @ 5:15 PM I know I won't do it, I was only kidding.
Gatherer	Date: January 10, 2004 @ 5:20 PM good! I'm very relieved.
KevBrock	Date: January 10, 2004 @ 5:26 PM See how people don't take my sarcastic jokes, you're a good example.
Cryxan	Date: January 10, 2004 @ 5:34 PM People lie bacause telling the truth is often hard. They might even think it easier to cheat and end a relationship that way rather than telling their partner that they want out of the relationship. Or, more generally speaking, their own desires are more important to them than the relationship they're in.
Gatherer	Date: January 10, 2004 @ 5:35 PM Oh, Kev, Kev, Kev.....you are something else, oh yes you are!
KevBrock	Date: January 10, 2004 @ 6:03 PM The only reason I think men cheat on their girlfriend/wife is that they think they can get away with it.
TameasDust	Date: January 10, 2004 @ 6:27 PM why do men cheat on men with women and why do women cheat on women with men ... now there's a question
djfacemachine	Date: January 10, 2004 @ 7:16 PM hmm i think its weird how this topic started off by stating that men and women cheat for different reasons. a man is just as likely to cheat because he is not feeling cared for as a woman is to cheat because she's bored with sex. i think the real issue, what it comes down to, is "why are some people dishonest with people they allegedly care about?". because there isn't really a 'good' reason... if there is a problem in a relationship, going off and cavorting with others isn't going to solve it. mature adults should know that and should probably realize the morality of the issue at hand.
KevBrock	Date: January 10, 2004 @ 7:20 PM "why do men cheat on men with women and why do women cheat on women with men ... now there's a question"
sepidman	Date: January 10, 2004 @ 9:04 PM The only problem with cheating is one slip of the hip and yer fucked!! A slip of teh tounge and yer licked!! Sheesh...
RockyStallone	Date: January 11, 2004 @ 1:40 AM sigh Children, children, children. I am just looking for the right woman and I am only 26 and that is not bad to be a virgin. anyone who thinks different is a 12 year old mark and they are flamming me and i will report you to the site admins. Thanks for reading!!!
Thaspian	Date: January 11, 2004 @ 1:52 AM @ RockyStallone...
Magneto22	Date: January 11, 2004 @ 10:07 AM I think the more important question is why do priests cheat on God with little boys. Eh? WHY FATHER WHY!?!
Svensta	Date: January 11, 2004 @ 12:18 PM some funny and rather twisted stuff here, kudos to many of you (pagan and magneto I will point out) I don't think its a matter of good versus evil, of people choosing to do BAD things, or the WRONG things. Cryxie said it best. I think the issue here is humanity's (read: ALL PEOPLE not men or women, specifically) overwhelming desire to behave selfishly. If you put your significant other before yourself, you would never understand why someone would cheat. If you keep yourself above all, you will never understand why people bother being faithful.
IHateF00ley	Date: January 11, 2004 @ 3:28 PM Kev, does this have anything to do with sliding your hand up a woman's buttocks? She felt violated, didn't she? She slapped you, didn't she? This is just a sarcastic joke. No one is ever understanding my sarcastic jokes though.
Pagan	Date: January 14, 2004 @ 3:50 PM i think kev will impregnate the first woman he bangs. hes way to backed up not to.
Pagan	Date: January 14, 2004 @ 3:51 PM If you put your significant other before yourself, you would never understand why someone would cheat. If you keep yourself above all, you will never understand why people bother being faithful. well said.
Pagan	Date: January 14, 2004 @ 3:52 PM "im 27 and a virgin by choice" yeah.... her choice.
milladrive	Date: January 14, 2004 @ 5:43 PM Sven, I wish you were a woman. ...and single.
TameasDust	Date: January 14, 2004 @ 5:58 PM I'm not saying a word ...
JIGGAMAN42076	Date: January 16, 2004 @ 12:01 PM a vagina ia nothing other than a wet hole... but there is something about that wet hole that I just can't get enough of...
Arthen	Date: January 16, 2004 @ 10:47 PM ehehe Jig, it's the whole being dude. Not just the wethole. The whole body to kiss...that soft skin to caress and run your tongue over...those lips to kiss and her soft moans when you enter her. It's the whole circumstance dude hehe
sinai	Date: January 16, 2004 @ 10:58 PM "i like big butts and i can not lie!..."
Thaspian	Date: January 16, 2004 @ 11:00 PM Milla, I wish you were a sicilian pizza, uneaten.
Cryxan	Date: January 16, 2004 @ 11:07 PM
Thaspian	Date: January 16, 2004 @ 11:20 PM I'm hungry.
Cryxan	Date: January 16, 2004 @ 11:24 PM
redrasta	Date: January 17, 2004 @ 12:19 AM I am so horny, its a crime. Sorry.
woodhead	Date: January 17, 2004 @ 12:21 AM I am so horny, its a crime. Sorry. so true to this thread, ppl cheat for they are horney
sinai	Date: January 17, 2004 @ 12:27 AM she better not be cheating!!!!
redrasta	Date: January 17, 2004 @ 12:45 AM No, I'm not..... HENCE HORNY!!!!!!
redrasta	Date: January 17, 2004 @ 12:46 AM Sad thing is its true though.....much more of this no-sex crap, and I'm gonna be looking at the furniture funny....
TameasDust	Date: January 17, 2004 @ 12:49 AM bedknobs and broomsticks
redrasta	Date: January 17, 2004 @ 12:53 AM Hell, the only reason I is to cop a feel!! Now....wheres that .......

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