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*sigh* Can't We All Get Along?

KevBrock	Date: January 2, 2004 @ 9:24 PM I thought this was a music site? I am beggining to think the admins should rename this site "AsTheWorldTurns.com". Can we all get along, act like things never happen and get back to music? This drama stuff is getting old pretty fast. yawn ZZZZzzz ZZZZzzz ZZZzzz This thread isn't aimed at anyone, it's aimed directly at everyone (in dmusic). This is my thought for the day.
Gatherer	Date: January 2, 2004 @ 10:33 PM I usually try to express my differences in private, but since you have directed this thread to EVERYONE, I am compelled to respond publicly. As I noted to you privately when we were in the midst of the first mess, the issue was not about who was right and who was wrong. I knew that it was useless to waste my energy discussing that aspect with you. What was important was for someone to stop the nonsense, apologize and help put things behind us. I reminded you then, and I'll remind you again, not to forget that this "soap opera" community supported you when that harasser started posting his atrocious comments about you and your music. This community CAME TO YOUR AID. One member in particular offered his friendship and responded to your request to do a collab at a time that wasn't particularly good for him......Chillinbuzz. Do you think he or any of us responded just so we could sleep better at night? No....we did so for YOUR sake. After your half-hearted apology, where you just couldn't let the opportunity go by to say that you were right, there was a tentative truce. At that time, I BEGGED you to please keep a low profile and give the community time to heal. You ignored that, and now look where we are. Even with all this, there are still people on this site who've tried to understand you and have kindly worked with you. And you have the audacity to direct this thread to them also?! You speak in contradictions, have shown no remorse, have taken no responsibility, constantly agitate, don't know when to quit, and what's been the last straw for me lately......you are INSENSITIVE to people's feelings and are devoid of any COMPASSION for anyone. And yes, this is a music site with REAL people with REAL feelings. And yes, we can all get along if you stop SHOVING your opinions down everyone else's throats while you totally disregard the feelings you're trampling on. You need to either get your ears cleaned-out, your eyes checked or take a social comprehension exam if you want to interact on this site in a positive way, because right now you're frustrating the hell out of everyone. And if you don't like what I'm saying, then dammit, don't goad me into saying it by posting a thread like this. If the words sting (which I doubt they do since you've shown you have no social skills), just remember that it's your own damn fault. I've really tried, but I think I may need to wash my hands of you...and I'm really angry that you've forced me to do this.
Svensta	Date: January 2, 2004 @ 10:42 PM unfortunately, the sad little cliche is true: when arguing on the internet, everyone in the fight loses. I just phrased it a bit kinder than others would.
Gatherer	Date: January 2, 2004 @ 10:52 PM yes, I have lost.....I HATE not being kind to people.
victorsskull	Date: January 2, 2004 @ 10:54 PM what the gatherer is trying to say is shut up for awhile. hhmmm maybe you get off on this and like keeping things going thinking you will get more attention. some people will do any thing for attention even if it is negative.
sinai	Date: January 3, 2004 @ 12:12 AM alright...different thread, same post...dude WILL YOU PLEASE DROP IT ALREADY!!!! so somebody doesn't like you, i dunno how your life is, but that happens to me quite alot, you know what i do? get over it! nobody is loved by everyone in the world, it just how life goes. people will always have disagreements, and sometimes those disagreements get to the point where it just best not to know that person anymore, and then you get on with things. there are people in this world who think mother teresa was a cuntbag, and it'll always be that way. please, PLEASE for the love of god, droppit...so mebbe we can all get on with our goddamn lives without seeing a thread like this everyday
rapidhopeloss	Date: January 3, 2004 @ 1:08 PM
KevBrock	Date: January 3, 2004 @ 4:02 PM I've been nice to all of you since I first came to this site. Jennae and Chillin takes things a bit too personally. It's them. Not me. I never harrassed Jennae at all. Look at my posting history for proof. None of my posts were directly at her. So what have I done to get her to leave? Nothing. You want to blame me for Jen's leaving of this site, well, I'm going to point it out. Simple as that.
milladrive	Date: January 3, 2004 @ 4:07 PM Kev, neither Jen nor Chillin have posted anything in this forum for days upon days. But you keep this topic goin' and goin' and goin' and goin' and goin' and goin' ...and goin'. It's old news. By chance, do you ever read anybody's words but your own?
TameasDust	Date: January 3, 2004 @ 6:01 PM
sinai	Date: January 3, 2004 @ 6:03 PM guess he doesn't understand what the words "drop it" mean...
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sinai	Date: January 3, 2004 @ 6:15 PM if you stare at that post long enough, you can see the face of Jesus
milladrive	Date: January 3, 2004 @ 6:25 PM Hey, check it out, Magic Eye works with it, too.
redrasta	Date: January 3, 2004 @ 6:38 PM Kev.... DUH.Assh*le. I think that mebbe the reason you are waiting for the 'right woman' to lose your virginity to is because NOBODY CAN STAND BEING NEAR YOU COZ YOU HARP ON ABOUT THE SAME FRIGGIN CRAP OVER AND OVER AD NAUSEUM!!!!! This would explain why there has not been a 'right' woman so far. She would have to be deaf. And never have heard of Dmusic. Oh, and she'd actually have to like you. (I cant believe you have brought me to the point I felt the need to be this childish, but hey...if YOU can do it.... )
woodhead	Date: January 3, 2004 @ 7:00 PM Even with all this, there are still people on this site who've tried to understand you and have kindly worked with you. And you have the audacity to direct this thread to them also?! I have to agree Kev, and I am one of those ppl that you pointed this statement at. Kev this IS an issue that you need to drop, I have stayed out of this but now it has gone to far. There are quite a few ppl such as myself, Gatherer, Rodrica, Digital cp2000(who agreed to do a collab with you) and others who after all this crap still talked with you and were nice to you, but to have a thread such as this, and this statement especially "This thread isn't aimed at anyone, it's aimed directly at everyone (in dmusic)." is wrong. For those of us who tried to look past all this nonsense and remain friendly with you this was uncalled for. Please Kev you need to drop this animosity towards the users, drop this subject, and if you want to get back to music then get back to it.
woodhead	Date: January 3, 2004 @ 7:04 PM oh and P.S. Please read the post, Jennae and Chillin did NOT leave because of you Kev, there were other issues that you dont know about and will never know about, so leave it alone and move on and stop dwelling on this for your sake and ours.
Gatherer	Date: January 4, 2004 @ 1:02 AM A few final words to Kev... I'm relieved that you finally understand that the majority knows you did NOT harass Jennae and that she & ChillinBuzz did NOT leave because of you. However, I'm not convinced whether you fully understand why so many of us got upset with you, but if you READ the posts, you may learn something to help you interact in a more positive way. As for why I blew a gasket, let me just say that it had nothing to do with IBOB, Jenn or ChillinBuzz. That said, I hope we're on the road to recovery here, but I urge you to practice accepting advice as easily as you like to give advice. Here's your first lesson: Expressing an opinion is fine. Continuing to express that opinion EVEN WHEN SOMEONE'S PERSONAL EXPERIENCE negates your opinion is absolutely insensitive and uncalled for. I advise you to never throw someone's personal trauma back in their face as if they imagined it all. That's it. End of thread and subject. Good luck to you.
sepidman	Date: January 4, 2004 @ 1:08 AM Amen!!
djfacemachine	Date: January 4, 2004 @ 2:23 AM dammit kev... i can't believe you just made me stab myself in the eye with my ball point pen. ah well. i'll stab the other one out while i'm at it so maybe i won't have to read the vomit that spews from your brain onto the internet.
Gatherer	Date: January 4, 2004 @ 2:29 AM hey, we've cleaned up the vomit, and he's going to try not to get sick again. We're on the road to recovery!

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